- How to behave with a guy you like
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Sometimes it is easier to talk about naturalness and naturalness than to behave in this way, because in modern society, the style of behavior is most often dictated by fashion. It seems that the world is simply overwhelmed with glamor, because it literally pours from the TV screens, from the covers of glossy magazines. How to maintain self-confidence when communicating with a guy under such circumstances, especially since the guy stares at it all?
In fact, there is nothing wrong with everything that happens, because the guys, as you know, perceive the world around them with their eyes, and they are pleased to look at the beautiful picture. But do not forget that almost all photo models and teledives in everyday life do not carry on themselves kilograms of makeup. And no girl made happier pomp and defiant look.
How to meet a guy you like
If you liked the guy, but shyness makes it difficult to get to know each other, then simple advice is useful in this case.
First of all, it is necessary to identify the circle of his interests. This can be done by asking friends about him. It will be great if the guy goes in for sports, for example, does morning runs. Joining him at this time is not difficult. If he visits the gym, then you should definitely sign up there. If he attends concerts, then you can take tickets to one of them. A good reason to ask a guy for help is a request to see a computer, maybe install a program or an antivirus.
If the young man is lucky and your neighbor, then you can bake cookies or cakes and boldly walk with a treat to get acquainted in a neighborly way.
There are a lot of options, and if the guy really really likes, then hesitancy must be overcome and steps taken.
How to dress on a date with a guy
A date with a guy, especially the first one (and subsequent ones too) should be comfortable above all. This is an already exciting moment, and the extra discomfort that exacerbates the situation, we do not need. It follows that clothes and shoes should be comfortable. And therefore, heels, if not worn in everyday life, or a girl has not stood on them before, are absolutely excluded.
Well, it is worth considering the time of year, but because if it happens in the summer, you need to bring along either a denim jacket or light leather. If the meeting takes place in autumn or spring, then the outfit should be different - a knitted fitting dress is suitable, or maybe jeans with a smart cardigan and a stylish sweater with a naked shoulder.
A little about linen - you need to wear only the most beautiful and preferably expensive (comfort is not excluded, but a necessity). This is necessary even if a demonstration of underwear is not planned. Simply, this element of the wardrobe will give a feeling of confidence, and therefore a certain emancipation to its owner.
Now you just have to mention the hairstyle - it should be very simple, just washed and loose hair will be a good option. There is no need to demonstrate thorough preparation for a date. Well, a few words about jewelry. Of course, they should be in moderation. If something catchy, then in a single copy, for example a large ring. And beautiful multilayer chains or a necklace will make even simple clothes play in a different way.
If a girl has a question about how to behave with a guy, then I want to remind you that individuals and self-sufficient people always enjoy respect and interest. It is always worth having your point of view, your opinion, but of course you cannot be categorical and impose your position on others. And yet - you can not play a role, you must always remain yourself. If a girl has the feeling that she does not reach the level of a young man, then there are no barriers to self-improvement, especially at a young age.
6 psychological tricks to instantly please a man
Psychological tricks are the lot of pragmatic people. Women who wish to succeed in love always try to grab hold of any straw. This time we suggest you familiarize yourself with the most powerful techniques.
Psychology is an incredibly flexible science. She can show any lady where she has problems in her worldview and attitude. Psychology helps to overcome any difficulties and make life easier and more understandable. As for relations with men, psychologists have a fairly wide range of tips for women who are eager to learn the secrets of charisma. You can conquer any man if you continue to read this article.
Trick one: the right compliment
Now, many ladies may think that they know how to compliment a man, but that’s not so. Most likely, you think that a man loves any compliments, which is not so far from the truth, to be honest. Men, on the other hand, must first be understood from within. Due to the fact that they belong to the stronger sex, from which a lot of things have been required from childhood, men love when people around them notice their victories and achievements. This is exactly what your compliments should be in the first place.
Do not tell him how beautiful he is, how cheerful he is. He himself knows this. At the deepest level, men always dream of receiving compliments about what they achieved themselves, without any help. If you know something about a man you want to like, then you should praise him for it. Praise him for putting a lot of time and effort into it. For example, a man is studying martial arts or goes to the gym - note this. He will be very grateful to you and will remember you for a long time. A great example is playing a musical instrument, singing, another hobby or hobby. Praise him for this, then he will never pass you by.
This is the essence of men, their natural component. Learn how to properly insert such compliments in the context of a conversation. This is a very useful thing that can help you impress men of even the very rich and powerful.
Trick two: talking about what he likes
This is a certain continuation of the previous paragraph. If you touched his favorite topic, praising him for the results in some kind of hobby, then continue the conversation in this vein. Learn to talk with a man about what he likes the most. This is a very powerful feature, not only at the beginning of the relationship, but also in their midst. When you just met a man, then talking about his hobbies will allow you to break out into the leaders among all his fans.
Try to put yourself in the place of this man. Think about how pleasant it would be to talk with someone you like about what you're just crazy about. This trick always works, in a hundred percent of cases. A person will receive a lot of positive emotions from a conversation in which he is asked about what he loves, and then they ask more questions and show interest, involvement, pleasure. In the future, this topic of conversation will be associated with you.
1. Show your confidence
There is nothing more attractive for a girl than a confident guy who knows that he is good, what he wants from life and who feels comfortable in his own skin.
The same goes for guys. They are also attracted by confident girls. For them, this is a signal that it took her a while to achieve confidence. So, she knows how to achieve the intended goal.
So discover your strengths. Learn to be happy even when you are alone. Do not behave as if you are completely dependent on male attention.
2. Give him enough space without becoming a psychopath
The right behavior with a guy is to give him space. Some girls try to keep the guy by calling him 24 hours a day, 7 days in a row.
Constantly flicker before his gaze, adjusting supposedly random meetings, if it works, then not for long. Sooner or later he will be fed up with it, which means he will want to get rid of it.
The easiest way to keep a guy is to let him go. The less you try to control his every step, the more he will strive for you. Because when you trust him 100%, he will make every effort to maintain this trust.
So how do you behave with a guy?
Instead of putting pressure on him, imposing himself on him, stop “strangling” him with your attention. The right strategy of behavior here is to know your worth, and not to stuff it. This principle is based on a clear understanding of male psychology.
Guys like it when their motivation for action is based on a personal desire or decision, and not when they are forced to do so. In addition, they like to “conquer” something, and not take it for nothing.
Therefore, do not be afraid to give him time for yourself, your friends, work or what he needs. Make a guy follow you with his behavior!
3. Be feminine
Gone are the days when girls have always been feminine, and guys are courageous. Now girls are becoming more masculine (in behavior, habits, manners), and guys behave like complete losers, without self-confidence and their determination.
“A good guy is hard to find,” is what we girls usually say. But, according to many guys, it’s even more difficult these days to find a good, kind, affectionate, feminine girl.
Quote: Girls are less and less concerned about themselves morally or mentally. Increasingly, caring for yourself is only to give attractiveness to your appearance. They "roam" in night clubs, streets, drink a lot of booze (scary). It may be cool, but it's clearly not my cup of tea. A good friend is primarily feminine, who knows how to teach herself.
From this statement it is clear that it is not necessary to spend all the time in the kitchen or live the life of housewives. You just need to be a girl who can teach or act more feminine.
To be with a feminine appearance, manners, habits. This is where our charm and guys want us to use it skillfully.
4. No matter how you want to, DO NOT try to change it.
In dreams, your chosen one appears before your eyes as a charming person - perfection itself? Believe me, you are not alone! But if it’s really important for you girls to know how to behave with a guy, then you should forget about your unfulfilled fantasies.
Otherwise, you will be faced with constant disappointment. If you try to “re-educate” your partner, especially at the beginning of the relationship, this will lead to constant skirmishes.
Therefore, the smartest way is to learn to accept your young man with his shortcomings and strengths. But, if you cannot put up with his shortcomings, and he is comfortable with them, then it is better to leave.
5. Become helpless sometimes
One of the best rules on how to behave with a guy is to show yourself a little helpless, shy. This method corresponds to the inherent masculine instinct of “protecting your woman”.
I assure you, this works great. To successfully apply this rule, use the following:
Be afraid. Simple things, such as fear of spiders, real or not, need to be shown openly. This will awaken in the young man the desire to protect you from all dangers. After all, protection is the basis in any relationship of the couple.
Forgetfulness. Another classic situation is to forget a sweater, jacket. Thus, he will be forced to lend you his things. This is a typical cinema situation. But it still works.
Indecision. Even if you consider yourself a confident girl, sometimes you need to show yourself indecisive or doubting some things. Play this game while you are with him in your favor.
This will help him to make a decision again. So you create the atmosphere of the girl in need of protection that you are looking for in him.
6. Do not give him reason to be jealous, but rather learn to trust
The best way to do this is not to follow his correspondence, not to double-check the phone numbers, not to dig into the notebook.
When a guy feels that he is trusted, he does not resort to deception, he does not have to dodge, which means he feels good. But when there is no trust in him, they follow him, he feels “in a cage”, therefore he resorts to all kinds of tricks, deceit.
Remember, surveillance, distrust, doubt or rechecking a guy cannot be restrained. This ultimately necessarily leads to a breakdown. Well, if your young man is womanizer, then it is better to end the relationship and not torture yourself. Focus on finding a decent person.
7. Love yourself even when there seems to be nothing to love
Another important tip on how to behave with a guy. Believe me to ask: "Am I fat, ugly?" 20 times a day - this is annoying. Stop acting unsafe with a guy, there is hardly anything attractive about that.
It’s difficult for a guy to consider a girl attractive and love her if she treats herself badly. Therefore, do everything to feel great in your own body or image.
When you love yourself, you are more confident that you are radiating positive energy that attracts people to you.
Every day, when you look at yourself in the mirror, focus not on the flaws, but on what you have attractive. This approach can change your life. By the way, this can help change the image, a new hairstyle, a different make-up.
Do good deeds and make others happy - this will give you more “life credit”, which means it will help you to feel better. Make other people happy and you will be happier. It is so simple.
A friend radiating positive energy, who smiles daily, enjoying life, is definitely a better girl for a guy than a gloomy and always dissatisfied lady.
8. The right attitude towards his friends
This is an important detail of how a girl with a guy should behave. Guys believe that there is nothing worse than a girlfriend who does not like his friends and openly complains about them.
Of course, his best friend may be an “idiot,” but he still considers him his best friend. You can give your boyfriend friendly advice if you consider some of his friends to be a bad company for him, but not in an aggressive manner. Let him make his own decisions.
A smart girl tries to treat her boyfriend’s friends well just out of sheer respect. She understands the worst thing that can be done in a relationship is to set ultimatums for a guy to choose between her and his friends. Definitely this does not make the girl attractive in the eyes of the guy.
RememberYou are his girlfriend, not your mother. Therefore, continuing to complain about his friends, you can just become annoying and “ex.”
How to behave properly and cute in this case with a guy, you ask? If you want to change his social circle, then approach this as a game of chess, not a computer strategy.
Take your time. Again, do not destroy his "power base" - friends whom he considers the only people who understand him.
The best thing you can do is to encourage him to meet new interesting people in order to expand his social circle. Introduce him to your acquaintances, friends, inviting them to visit.
As soon as a young man “grows up”, he will outgrow his friends. He would just be uninteresting with them. And the most important thing is that the guy will not even guess about your chess combination, as he will make the decision.
9. Think of your own life.
This is the next tip on how to deal with a guy in your relationship. Life is unpredictable and everything can change dramatically overnight. It is impossible to calculate everything.
Today you love your boyfriend, maybe even your future husband, but tomorrow - who knows what will happen? You do not know if you will still love him after 5 years.
Things are changing. You are changing, it is changing, love, affection between you can grow more and more, and vice versa, it can become less and less day by day.
That is why you must have a life outside of your relationship, so that one day you do not stay with a broken trough, a devastated, lonely lady. Therefore, do not forget about your own life.
Try to develop, become better as a person, communicate and meet new people, maintain friendships and create new friendships.
This will help you not to depend on anyone, either emotionally or financially. And that means not falling into the trap of this psychological burden.
You need to have something that you can be truly passionate about. And believe me, it will make you, as well as your relationship stronger, so you will become a better girl.
Having your own life outside of your relationship is crucial for the relationship to last. Otherwise, you and your boyfriend will be too dependent on each other. This addiction can be a trap, making you not stronger, but weaker.
10. Be better than all his former girlfriends
If you still do not know, then I will open your eyes. Men compare everything with their past personal experiences. Бессознательно, но ваш молодой человек также судит о вас по прежним отношениям.
А значит, как вести себя с парнем, который нравится тебе? Нужно быть лучшей и более «идеальной» подругой, чем все его бывшие подружки вместе взятые. Это вовсе не значит, что нужно становиться самой «горячей», умной, доступной. Также речь не идет о внешности или красоте.
У вас и вашего парня может быть разное восприятие красоты. Some girl may be beautiful for you, but not be in the eyes of your boyfriend and vice versa. Each person has his own idea of beauty.
The reason he is with you is probably because you are already better than his former girlfriends. So continue to improve what you already have, those qualities, the virtues of which you “hooked” it.
Work on it if your goal is to fall in love with a guy so much that he is afraid of losing you. It is worth behaving with a guy so that he erases any other girl from his memory forever.
Never discuss his ex girlfriends or your ex boyfriends. Leave it in the past. Now it’s important - you and him.
11. How to behave if a guy is cold or ignores you
He left you, and you think how to behave so that he wants to return? Best of all - stop being his “tail” or show yourself suffering. It is important!
If the guy has no desire to meet with you, to invite him on a date, or if he has stopped responding to your messages, then stop persecuting him or imposing on him. Most likely he thinks about other things.
Maybe he returned to his ex-girlfriend or he was interested in another lady, so he forgot about you. In this case, the following rule applies: you should do the same.
Think, maybe you are simply not his type, so stop taking everything at your own expense, looking for far-fetched flaws in yourself. Lead a self-sufficient life, meeting with friends, reciprocating the attention signs of other young people.
Then you will meet someone who will truly be passionate about you, and you will love him. Or it will hook on your ex's living, and he will want to return. Having finally realized that, having parted with you, he lost more than he gained.
1. Take off the mask
Do not try to pass yourself off as a girl who you are not or cannot become her in the future. Sometimes, some girls, trying to impress a guy, try to demonstrate perfection itself.
For example, in everything they always demonstrate their full agreement with any actions or words of their gentleman. Even if he is clearly mistaken or mistaken in his judgments.
But having your own opinion and being able to defend it is perhaps one of the best ways to impress a guy.
To behave correctly with a guy you need to be real with him. If you are looking forward to some kind of future relationship, then let him be interested in not a fictional character, but that girl who you really are.
2. Do not focus on the past
The way you will behave with a guy is influenced by your past experience with a male. Therefore, it is important to focus on the future, not the past.
Nobody likes to hear stories from the past about former relationships, especially when they first met on a date. Inevitably the question of former partners will appear, but it should not be on the first date.
Keep the past in the past, without any comparison with former partners. Start all over and discover new experiences. If you are not ready to meet new people, do not do this.
It is much better to feel confident, ready for this then and you will behave with the guy correctly.
3. Avoid vanity
Vanity is a vice, but in fact, all people like to highlight their virtues, talking about their affairs. Guys do this mainly to impress girls. How should a wise girl behave on her first date with a guy - be silent, or praise herself?
There is nothing criminal in talking about your virtues, but it is better to mention them in passing, without interrupting the young man. Guys like it when girls are interested in them, listen to them.
4. Avoid cynicism
Guys are afraid of cynical ladies because cynicism stands next to pride. This is why cynical behavior must be ignored. Some women believe that if cynicism does not work, you need to be naive. But this is not so, since naivety does not imply a lack of cynicism.
A striking example of cynicism is the desire of a girl to make a guy fulfill all her whims. At the same time, she builds herself from a naive, meaningless girl.
6. Do not consider sex the measure of relationships
This is relevant to how to behave on a date with a guy, especially in private or at the beginning of a relationship. Sexual relationships occupy a very important place in a relationship, but they are not the only or exclusive thing that unites a couple.
A couple united only by sex suffers in other areas of life, which means that there is little future.
Therefore, before rushing with sex, you need to think carefully about its shortcomings. Random relationships may seem attractive at first glance, but they do not create stable, long-term relationships.
7. Guys are annoyed by "little girls"
An adult girl should always act as such. This is what the guy wants to see in her. Of course, you can play an innocent schoolgirl or a little girl who has offended her lips, but only in private with him.
In public, the only thing he expects is for his chosen one to act with the maturity of a woman. This means that the tantrums of a spoiled girl, scenes of jealousy, scandals, and even more so any public actions are excluded. NEVER DO THIS! This will lead your relationship to the edge of the abyss.
The key to a guy’s liking or falling in love with himself is the right way to present yourself as a girl and the right behavior strategy. This affects him much more than you can imagine. With all that has been written here, at least 90% of the guys will agree.
Does that cast doubt on you?
Then let any guy read these tips, and he will agree with at least half of them. As soon as you start applying these tips regarding how to behave with a guy, you will see immediate results. Try it and see for yourself!
In conclusion, watch this short video about the correct behavior of a girl with a young man she liked.
How to behave with a guy you like
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Sometimes it’s very difficult to remain yourself or keep calm when there is a guy nearby who you like. As soon as you see it, you begin to sweat, your legs give way, you begin to speak inaudibly or say some stupid things (for example, about Winnie the Pooh), just to not be silent. Do not worry, almost every one of us experiences such feelings from time to time. Try to calm down and understand that the guy is worried the same way, being near you! Only then can you impress him.
Trick Three: Sincerity
If you really like a man, but you don’t have the opportunity to see him, then honestly say: “You know, I really like you, but I can’t see you now. It’s far more important for me to spend this evening preparing for the exams. Let's meet right after I'm free. ” You can tell the truth directly when you meet: “Listen, I liked you so much that I could not resist and came to meet you. I know I can look stupid, but it's true. ” Do not be afraid to seem stupid, ridiculous. This is absolutely normal, because everyone can be shy or do something wrong when he needs to overcome himself. Overcoming shyness is simple, but instantly a man will like it, using his shyness as a weapon - this is a real psychological art.
Take sincerity to a higher level. Show the man that you are deprived of negative motivation to meet him. A man will appreciate that you are not trying to profit. You can tell a rich man that you do not want to seem like a hunter for his wallet, that you are ready to pay for yourself everywhere yourself, for example. There is no need to look for any cliches or blanks - just say what you think. This will plunge the man into a pleasant shock.
The fourth trick: open pose
Do not cross your arms in front of you, do not put them in your pockets. An open pose is a powerful trick that not everyone uses. Of course, this is only an auxiliary advice, but many women ignore it, because they think that their beauty solves any problems associated with body position. No, it is not. People who have never been interested in psychology will still feel your closeness and nervousness. However difficult it may be, keep your hands open.
The fifth trick: exceed expectations
The very fact that you have expressed a desire to get to know each other is superior to yourself. To please a man and capture his heart and mind instantly, you need to show that you are not like other women. The main thing is not to go too far, because this man can perceive as an obsession.
Men expect that you will be demanding, will wait for some action from him. Invite him on a date in the first seconds of dating. Tell him that you are ready to meet tonight and chat if it suits him. Do nothing else if you have come this far. This will be enough. When you do not warn about reaching a new level, it affects men.
Trick Six: joke first, set the tone for conversation
Once you have entered into a dialogue, then in order to please a man, make the dialogue positive from the very beginning. You can joke (not even funny), and then start saying what you wanted. This is especially good when meeting people, because even if you yourself express a desire to meet, a man may not be predisposed to such a conversation.
If you start with phrases that do not have men for a pleasant conversation, then you will not be able to like it instantly. In a string of gray days, I want someone to come to us on the street with a smile on their face and say that everything will be fine, and not finish us off with their gloom.
You can always like a man, but to do it in less than 10 seconds is almost impossible if you do not have certain skills or at least knowledge. Try not to drown in the negative, keep the desire to be a bright and extraordinary lady. Good luck and don’t forget to click on the buttons and
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